I don't know about the rest of you, but I find that most women don't immediately orgasm. Truth be known many men face this same challenge. When we put down our pride, ego's and manly personas, at the end of the day, women can be very difficult to please. As a matter of fact according to some studies even cited on Wikipedia, 37% - 50% of women have faked an orgasm. At the end of the day most men do want to please their sexual partner, so what can you do to arouse your female partner more? Is there a secret?

If there is a secret, I certainly have not found it yet. I can say that I have found two things that have changed the response from my partner and actually led to her enjoying the experience more and actually having an orgasm.

Tip #1 - Make certain that there is foreplay. Many of us are guilty of just going straight in for the kill. After all, you have waited for what seems like an eternity, you are ready to go, why shouldn't she be? Sex for a female is not so much a physical thing as it is for males, there are many more emotions tied to sex for females than males. So during foreplay, simply kiss her back from the neck down, this is guaranteed to stir up the kind of wild emotions inside of her that usually results in her ultimately achieving the most mind blowing orgasm each and every time. Sounds simple, so why not try it? Take your time, kiss her gently, breath gently into her ear and continue kissing her shoulders, mid back and lower back areas.

Tip #2 - Use different positions during sex with her. There are two excellent positions, one is "doggy position". This is because the "G-spot" area is easily stimulated from this position. The only problem with this position is that it does not help achieve that emotional state that most women really crave during sex. So the "bridge" position will achieve much the same feeling for her plus you can see her, by glancing at her face during sex and showing her that you are attracted to her, you can stimulate much more emotion. The "Bridge Position" will position her with her arms behind her to hold her upper body off of the bed or couch, while you enter her from a kneeling position.

Combining the tips above is practically guaranteed to heighten her sexual senses and give her the start to one of the best orgasms of her life. Feel free to use one of these tips on their own or combined with some of the other techniques that your have read or studied about.

One technique that can improve the tips above is making certain that you also stimulate the clitoris previous to actual intercourse. Applying a female stimulating gel underneath the hood of her clitoris right before getting her into the bridge sex position will heighten her sexual sensations by ten fold!